you complete me

Salamu’alaik ya nuha..


Hmm..what with the title??


due to certain reasns,lately,I’ve been doing a blind survey,and few of my friends have been bombarded with questions.


The questions are:

1) what a wife means to you?

2) where will you put your wife in your life.


And these are the answers I gather from them:

- i think a wife should be more than just a follower of a husband ,should be a
partner with big say about the direction of family and guide the husband if necessary

- pendamping setia suami ketika susah dan senang..untuk disayangi dan dihormati hak nya..dan isteri ni khidmat utk menguruskan harta ketika suami pergi bekerja..

- teman hidup, dialah racun, dialah penawar, tempat seorang lelaki bersandar dan disandar.. itulah isteri..

- isteri adalah org yg memahami kita n menerima kita seadanya

- seorang yang merupakan pelengkap bagi seorang suami..



where will you put your wife in your life?

and for the second question.these are the responses:


- as a partner in a broad sense of word. , i dont want a woman who wud just follow me blindly.and i'm not expecting a wife to do some sacrifice if i'm unable to do the same.

- kalo x jawap boleh x? jujur, xtau nk jawap apa.. huhu

- Allah , rasul, parents, wife... <--- priority hati <----- metafora

- kat umah la..takkan nak gendong sana sini? (jawapan paling logic .tahniah!)

- aku akan bagi dia kebebasan apa yang dia nak buat asalkan dia tak membelakangkan aku



hmm..so,you guys..what do you think?


What is your answer?


If,me I would answer that a wife should be someone who is first obey Allah and His Rasool and then,obey her husband..a simple answer with years to ponder and actually fulfill..


Where should my husband (later eh) place me in his life?

Where Allah asked him to place me as a wife.he should know this before he knows me.


Pesan mak : langkah kaki kena susun satu-satu..xboleh jalan kaki kanan dan kiri dalam masa yang sama.maka,study kasi habis dulu ye.=)


kepada mereka yang menjayakan survey ni,terima kasih.
jazakallah khairan kathiran.